Life's Turns

I wasn't certain if I had this post in me. My two prior posts about Google Sites were a welcome, and needed diversion.

Last week I posted about my own 25th Wedding Anniversary. Given this is a technical blog, I felt it was time to refocus on hard content. God had other plans for me. Wednesday night, my Mom died. Perhaps I can pass along some learnings.

I have discovered that hospice care is truly a phenomenal service. My Mom and Dad, whose love dates back to 1950, made a promise to each other years ago that they would not let each other die in a hospital. Hospice care and Rosie allowed Dad to keep that promise. By the grace of God I had planned to be in Florida on Wednesday, and was present at my parent's Winter home when Mom died Wednesday night at 11:00 p.m. The hospice care nurse (thanks Sara) was with us within 30 minutes, and took care of everything. By 2:00 a.m. the funeral folks had come and gone. Early the next morning, both Pastor Mike and Nurse Gayle from the hospice group called to make certain we were okay (thanks to both of you during this difficult time). Pastor Mike also visited us later that day.

The service we used was Hospice of the Comforter. Their name rings true.

Finally, I give my thanks to God who allowed me to insure my Dad was not alone Wednesday night. We watched old home movies early Wednesday evening. These films dated back to the 1930's and showed my Mom as a young girl growing up in Sudbury, Ontario. Mom was still with us as we watched. (click upon any thumbnail image for an expanded view)

 

Comments

[Kevin Devin]

Rich,

My condolences on your loss. I share your appreciation of hospice. 4 years ago my mother-in-law passed under hospice care in our home. They were awesome every step of the way.

-KHD

[Cathy Juneau]

Rich, I was sorry to hear about your Mom. My sympathies to you and your family.
Cathy

[Patty B.]

Rich, I am so sorry to hear the news. Losing a parent isn't easy for any of us. My heart goes out to all of you. May God cradle you and the family in His comforting arms during these dark and lonely days.

[Paul R. Pival]

Condolences, Rich.

[David Head]

I was very sad to hear of your loss Rich. I'm glad to hear that you were in town to support your Dad during this difficult time. You know that I'm not far down the road, so please don't hesitate to let me know if there's anything I can do.